8th of July 2021
Why are we heartbroken?
Sometimes our hearts are broken and we feel like the world is over.
The truth is that without knowing the feeling of being broken we don´t appreciate the feeling of being whole!
I know it sounds strange but this is my experience and I can only talk about what I have lived through and perhaps there is someone out there who needs to hear what I have to say.
I appreciate every day I wake up and I put all my love into the moment. I appreciate being well and being able to feel this happy joy in my heart every day and allow it to grow every minute.
I have been in love and lost that love either to someone else or just to death.
Sometimes I have told you that losing a child is the worst that can happen to you. I am not so sure about that because many who lose their loved one don´t have, and never have had a child but they still feel this horrible loss.
I want to talk today about loosing a love of another grown up person.
You are in love with someone and they are your friends but they don´t love you back as a man or a woman, they just love you as their friends.
Being in a situation where your love is not the right one but you still want it to be, can be complicated and letting go without breaking your heart perhaps impossible.
A broken heart will be mended.
You will survive and become stronger and wiser. A broken heart is a lesson in live and can be used for the greater good of your soul.
Letting go of your loved one is a strength.
Letting go with love is a power.
The right person is waiting for you. The right person will arrive and if you approach life with open eyes and optimism miracles will happen.
My opinion is that love is the power of everything. It is not just the love between a man and a woman, it is the love for the nature, love for the live, love for your animals, love for your health, love for your body, love for the food on your table. You just name it.
Gratitude is the other part of love.
Gratitude and love walk hand in hand. They are like a heart, two parts of the one fit together.
If you are not grateful you will be looking without finding.
Be grateful for everything and happiness is granted.
Be happy and you will find someone to share your happiness with.
Just my thoughts today about the beauty of love in our daily lives and expressing my gratitude to the ones who love me truly as their friends and the one and only that loves me like no-one else can.
Hulda Björnsdóttir