18th of January 2022
Have you thought about night and day as a woman and a man?
The morning and the evening are also a man and a woman!
I think this is it: The balance between Ying and yang.
You wake up in the morning and the man bids you good morning and tells you how beautiful the day is going to be with you beside him.
You go to bed in the evening and the woman thanks her husband for a wonderful day and tells him how much she appreciates him and all he is doing to make her happy.
Thinking about the day like this makes me happy.
Thinking about the loved one like this makes us both happy.
The key to a healthy relationship could be appreciation and gratitude.
Another important thought is to ASK instead of ASSUMING.
Assuming is the way to misunderstanding and asking is the best way to understand perfectly.
Men and women think differently and they express their thoughts and feelings in different ways, so questions like: I don´t quite understand what you mean, could you explain to me?
Have you read the book You don´t understand me, by Debora Tannen?
It’s a wonderful book about the difference between men and women.
Men talk with reason and women with feelings!
I have always envied men that can say in one sentence when I have to use at least five sentences to say the same thing!
Debora Tannen explains the difference well and the book is from 1990 but classic and worth reading again and again.
When I woke up this morning, I got this idea about night and day and morning and evening.
To me this makes sense.
Just think about it and maybe you could talk to your spouse about the idea and you could explore.
Whoever reads this, I hope you have a wonderful day.
Hulda Bjornsdottir
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