17th of October 2024
It was supposed to make me feel trust when he played my feelings like music strings.
In some ways he managed but there were so many things and stories that didn’t add up, but I fell for it all eventually and it took him not a long time to convince me.
If only ……… I could say but that is no use. The fact was I was like a leave in the wind, blown back and forth.
The signs are everywhere. How he writes, how he makes the mistakes a five year old would perhaps when learning to read and write. It was all over and I just took it for granted that this was normal.
Did I ever think about how we would communicate when he was living with me? No, I didn’t until 2 years later and then it was too late, the damage on my life had already been done.
The story about the mining continues here, I want you to see how the lies stack up and become more and more unbelievable, and how they are a perfect sign that the main purpose of the relationship was to get me to feel sorry and send money!
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Mistake honey there was not a power it was dark that’s why
I’m telling you because I have non to tell
I’m trying to delete people out of my Facebook I just want to be alone no good people in this world only few like you
Do you know I have helped people all my life now I meet these people for help they give me stories even a dollar they say the don’t have and I know they have
Why are people like this I want to be wicked I have used my money to send two friend to united kingdom now they cant even show me some love it’s really sad honey
This is how he tries to make me feel sorry. He is alone, I am his saviour, everyone is mean to him, everyone except I of course. He is saint who has been helping people all his life and now they have abandoned him!
Trying to delete people from Facebook! Deleting people from Facebook is the easiest thing in the world. This was a sentence he used a lot until the end.
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Once mi strong will take a good thought of how much I will sell my land I travel to Canada inside the year
Are you going to sell your land?
Noooo honey that my huge fortune if I have enough money buy the mining machines I will become a millionaire honey my late dad left it for me I can’t sell it
That’s wonderful honey
The Chinese want to buy the land cheap but won’t sell if I can buy the mining machines honey our live will be so cool by then I can come to Portugal for visit
You go to the bank and ask for a loan
Oh you forgot I already took a loan before to buy a machine!!! They won´t give me again. I just need to treat myself first health first
Oh I didn’t know you had already got the loan from the bank. I thought it was from a friend
No from my bank
Looking at the conversation above there is so much that does not add up.
In once sentence he talks about selling the land and in the next, he says he is not going to sell it, he just needs money to buy the mining machine! And then he will become a millionaire.
Really!
And I suggested he went to the bank to borrow some money!
No that was not possible, he had already borrowed from the bank!
And the health is the other thing, during this all, he just needs money to treat his health!
Through those years we were together his health was always an issue. He used his health and even he got so sick that he told me he was going to die if he didn’t get money to go to the doctor!
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Why did you call me a scam yesterday I want to know
I thought you were asking me for money
The scams do ask for money after making you connect with them
I was terrified
I’ve heard from so many people how this works and I felt afraid
Am I doomed?
Firstly I never posed as a white man to you and never lied to you about anything!!! As a friend can’t you assist me ?? is that a s-Scam??
I can’t assist you even though I wanted to. I have been honest with you
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During this I became angry and I did call him a scam that is correct.
Just notice how he tries to convince me that he is not a scam but in the same message he asks for money! This is interesting now, because I see through it all but at the moment this was happening, I was blinded and thought there was something wrong with me.
The gut feeling told me something was wrong but my heart told me the gut feeling was wrong!
What was it that I fell in love with? That is the question I am asking myself again and again.
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Have you eaten?
I ate biscuits not enough God will not forgive those elders and police officer for making spend 1.600hgc everything I had with me
Why do you think I’m after money ??? I’m rich I just want a push to get my machines I can buy a house anywhere in the world but these times I’m passing through is tough I too don´t have anyone to support me too honey my love for you is true
I don´t think you are after money. I’m just being honest and making sure we are truly honest with each other.
I’m honey to you not after money I don’t ask people for money never just imagine me now I have not eaten today my television broken
I love you and honest
Yes he convinced me he did love me!
He used the word I love you several hundred times during the first months, and continued during the years. Somehow he didn’t understand when I had left him and he thought the words of love would make everything ok, even though he showed nothing but disrespect.
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Is you calling me a scam
I don’t have food in the house honey
Can’t you go out and get food?
Honey I balled myself with 1.600ghc everything I had in the house
What about the friend? Can´t he help you with food?
One of the boy kicked me in my stomach is paining me the where I did appendix done year ago its swollen now
Oh honey this is horrible
All because of my property and I will neve sell it the papers are kept safe I wish they where are home they would have taken it because that’s what they came for
Be strong my love
I will thanks honey
You already told me what you have in mind about me my tv is broken spolt the boys were fighting me because I refuse to follow them
If not for the police I would not follow them
My hole body hurts me now
Its fine but honey I’m not a scam please
It’s not fine if they hurt you
Slapping me heating me
But you are home now
They even took my drilling machine refuse to give it back
I’m home I had to bake myself out if not I would have been there
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The elderly came to his house and kicked him and broke the TV and the police came and all hell broke loose, because they wanted to get his land!
This story about the land was not over and some months later he put on stage perhaps the best act he managed during the relationship. That is a story for another chapter.
The conversation I have published here is written exactly as he did with all the errors and mistakes.
I want people to see how the scammers are not too bright.
The conversations on phone were different or not as obvious as the written ones.
Maybe my experience can open someone’s eyes and save another woman. If that happens then my goal is accomplished.
2 years is a long time being manipulated by a romantic scammer. Giving money for 2 years, a lot of money, is also huge.
They are everywhere but according to study I have seen are the Nigerians worst.
There are good people in Nigeria and I know some of them after working with them in China, but the scammers thrive there according to research.
Just be careful my reader if you think you are being deserved.
Hulda Bjornsdottir
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