1st of October 2024
The Shit continues
I got this message some time ago, I don’t remember when exactly:
“You never loved me, have you ever loved anyone in your whole life??? You have called me all kinds of names because of the help you have giving to me !!! Imagine you saying I’m with a group of people, I´m just a slave to you….I´m battling with life….ur love was never real let me tell you no amount of money can buy love…..I gave you my heart, I told you about my plans to the agent you said I never wanted to be with you….let me tell you no one can ever love you like me never !!!! Humans die money goes but true love never dies. Get you life back you need it that´s what matters to you….but I tell you the love I have for you can´t find with another man….I have respect for people but you no way you insult anyone without thinking where it goes !!! Get you life back but I won´t take your insult anymore.
I imagine if I´m with you daily you will treat me like a slave and insult me daily !!!
This is the true Shit talking.
He is right, I have called him names, I have called him liar and sheeter. That is what the scammers are.
I have been angry and I have been frustrated.
But he somehow managed for 2 years to manipulate me and make me feel guilty and pathetic.
This is how the scammers work.
When I look back, I don´t understand how I could be so naïve, but I am, and have always been gullible and willing to take the blame on me!
This message is a long one. Normally the messages were short and he used “I love you” a lot. That is what they do.
He is trying to make me feel guilty because of his horrible situation, which cannot be different until he gets more money from me!
From January 2021, when the relationship began, he has been sick most of the time. Sometimes very sick and almost dying, if I didn’t help him, and other times just in need of money to get some tests!
Yes, I told him in January 2023 that I wanted my life back. I had given him my life for 2 years and sacrificed my financial freedom.
We made a plan in 2021 and I did everything I could to make that plan come true but he was never there in reality.
I am sure, and I know, that he was not alone in the scam. He had some of them call me both in video calls and voice calls. They pretended to be lawyers, friends, people who worked with applying for visas and on and on.
At the time I believed them, most of them.
One of them told me that in Africa everything was possible, and that was about fake documents! This was in a video call and the Shit was standing next to him and told him he could not say this!
Looking back, I am surprised how long I did allow the Shit to treat me like an idiot.
“Get your life back you need it that´s what matters to you”
Is one of the sentences in the message.
This is one of the proves of his love! I did say that I was ending this relationship and I wanted my life back. That is true. What this sentence tells me is his love is rather strange.
If you love someone you want the best for the person, don´t you?
No, he doesn’t he only sees himself and what he needs or wants which is more money from the white lady who he thinks he can control!
He did control me for a while. That’s what the scammers do.
The lies he told me changed, it’s a problem when you lie that remembering what you said can get the truth through!
I will continue to tell the story and the beginning is the next step.
I’m not sure if I publish chapter by chapter here but I might.
I am at piece but I know there are many out there who are desperate and, in a situation, similar as mine and they don´t know what to believe.
I hope my story will help someone.
I don´t need revenge, but telling the story and getting it truly out of my system feels great.
I have nothing to lose.
What is so sad is that the scams are everywhere but mostly in Africa and Nigeria is the worst.
Today I am content and happy with my life.
HB
Ps. Remember when you read this, it’s a draft and could change a bit in the future i.e. the style but not the context
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