20.sept 2024
Its difficult to live in a condominium where half of the owners don’t see their responsibility to pay for what is a cost to run the condominium properly.
3 of 6 have never paid anything.
I am pissed off now and its difficult to keep calm and not shout and scream.
How am I going to survive?
I have pictures on my living room wall where there is a layout for a house that I really would like to have.
I have been thinking about taking those pictures down and just give up on my dream but something has kept me from doing it.
I´m thinking about how to survive the situation and then is struck me:
I am stuck in the situation in my mind and that is not good.
How am I going to survive?
I have to change my thoughts and remember that nothing is cut in stones about my life!
Letting go of the situation and letting the others solve the problem is the best I can do.
Keeping my life going and making the most and the best of it is in my power.
What others are saying or doing is not my problem and me thinking about it and worrying does not make any difference.
Letting go is the only thing I can do.
The month is almost over and October is approaching!
This month I have been saving for my new car.
I made a plan. I decided how much I would put in the saving account, I figured out how much the bills would take and then I estimated how much money I needed for other things, i.e. food, medicine, diesel and so on.
The plan is working.
There is just one week left and I have everything I need even though some unexpected situations have taken some of the money from my estimation.
The plan is working perfectly.
Next month is a month where I always have mor bills than other months so perhaps I won’t be able to save as much as this month but it is almost the same.
The plan is to be able to get a newer car in January next year.
Because I am old I don´t have any credit, just because of my age, and I have accepted it.
I could shout and scream about it but it doesn’t change anything!
Anyway, I am happy with this month and planning is my strength and I like it. It gives me purpose and energy.
I am working on my mindset about the situation in the condominium and saw my lawyer yesterday and I know my legal rights and what I can do, and what I can’t do.
If they decide to have a meeting, I am going to have an interpreter with me so I will understand every word. I will have to pay for it but that is ok. I really need to understand everything they say and its difficult to understand the mad one upstairs!
I have begun to write the book about the SHIT and that is a task which is not too difficult and the goal is to make it an eBook and perhaps I will get some of the money back by selling it! Not a bad idea, but the main thing is to be absolutely, horrible, honest and then it might help someone in the same situation I was in.
We are never alone; we just have to reach out.
The mindset is everything!
This is it for today.
Hulda Bjornsdottir
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